If you are a person of faith, you should continue reading this because you believe in a Creator God, and as such, you are interested in what the Bible, the Word of God, has to say about how you live your life. If you are not a person of faith but are somewhat curious about what the Bible says about how you live your life, then you may also benefit from reading this. However, if you have no interest in what the Bible says and don’t believe God has anything to do with your sexuality, then this will probably not make much sense to you.
This article does not discuss what medical professionals, sociologists, psychologists, or sex experts say. While not discounting these professionals, we want to first elevate God’s Word above all others to see how God wants us to understand our sexuality. Then, we may consider other recommendations if they align with the Bible. So, we invite you to read this article with openness and humility. Ask the Holy Spirit to open your heart to receive what God wants you to hear, not just about masturbation but about your sexuality overall.
Introduction
Masturbation, defined as the act of self-stimulation leading to sexual pleasure, is a practice that spans cultures, generations, and belief systems. In today’s world, it is touted as a natural part of human sexuality and serves as an outlet for sexual urges and desires and a healthy expression of sexual autonomy. Many experts say it is an excellent way to avoid sexually transmitted diseases (STDs), unwanted pregnancy, and infidelity. But how should a Christian view masturbation, and what does the Bible say about it?
What exactly is Masturbation?
Masturbation is the experience of a person giving themselves sexual pleasure... it still is an act of self-pleasuring and self-gratification. Does this mean it is inherently sinful?
Christian perspectives on masturbation vary widely... While the Bible does not explicitly speak about masturbation, it does give unambiguous instructions about sexual activity and how Christians are to approach their sexuality.
God invented sex
God invented sex. It’s His perfect gift to humankind... This in no way justifies, condones, or endorses masturbation but simply describes what often happens in adolescent growth and development. However, the real drive for masturbation stems from a deep need for intimacy with another person and for sexual fulfillment. But once this quick gratification is achieved, it can easily become an addiction to simply pleasuring oneself rather than being with another person. As such, masturbation often becomes a compulsive habit that can be detrimental for one to have a healthy sexual relationship later on in marriage. It also often leads to addiction to pornography and other lustful behaviors. In Matthew 5:27-30, Jesus talks of lust which can be defined as a strong desire or craving; it is desire without restraint. Compulsive behaviors often lack control and always demand immediate satisfaction.
By Willie and Elaine Oliver, Directors of Family Ministries, General Conference of Seventh-day Adventist
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